Reliable, diligent, sensible, and responsible are a few adjectives that can be used to describe a Virgo man. However, they can be quite reserved with their emotions which is why it helps to learn some of the signs that a Virgo man is falling for you.
As a person who has more than once found myself attracted to and/or attached to a Virgo man, I consider myself somewhat of an expert on this unique group of guys.
In this article, you will learn all you need to know about what to expect from a Virgo man in relationships, including:
- the characteristics of a Virgo man
- how to tell if a Virgo man is in love with you
Let’s get right into it.
Characteristics of a Virgo Man
Before we get into the signs a Virgo man is falling for you,let’s first find out what’s in it for you. Here are some of the common characteristics of these men so that you know exactly what you are signing up for.
Reasonable
One thing you can count on with a Virgo man, other than the man himself, is that you will rarely have to suffer petty fights.
This is because Virgo guys tend to be very open-minded, even-tempered, and logical. They also appreciate it when their partners share the same mindset.
Responsible
Virgos are like the quintessential responsible firstborn in the Zodiac family. You can trust that a Virgo man will handle his responsibilities without needing to be pushed. It makes them very easy to live and get along with.
Humble
Virgo men tend to be very successful largely thanks to their intelligence, ability to focus, and their logical perspective. However, they will not be quick to brag about their achievements even when they have every right to.
This down-to-earth nature is undoubtedly one of the most attractive things about Virgo men.
Observant
A Virgo man is likely to be the strong but silent type who prefers to listen and observe, whether in a one-on-one situation or a group hangout. Because of their observant nature, they’ll easily pick up on the things you hate and things that make you happy.
Generous
Something else you have to look forward to with a Virgo man is getting taken good care of. Virgo men often show their love through acts of service and gifts, which makes up for their hesitation to verbalize their emotions.
However, their generosity may send mixed signals as Virgo men tend to be very kind towards all people they care about.
10 Signs a Virgo Man Is Falling in Love With You
There is no denying the fact that Virgo men are a real catch. However, you often have to deal with a lot of hot and cold treatment and may not always know where you stand in his life. Lucky for you, I have enough experience with how to tell if a Virgo man is in love with you to offer some help.
Here are 10 signs a Virgo man is falling in love with youif you are having difficulty figuring it out.
He lets loose around you
Virgo men tend to be reserved, especially around people they don’t know very well yet. If he likes you, then this will be the exact opposite. Instead of the somewhat cold responsible, diligent, and driven side that most people get to see, you will be treated to your Virgo crush’s more goofy and playful side.
You had better be prepared because it is usually in stark contrast to their focused, business-like side. But it definitely is a treat and will make for some great times together.
He is comfortable being vulnerable
It is not very common for Virgo men to fully let people in. Reason almost always triumphs over pure emotional instincts, which spills over into how they choose to relate with people.
If you notice that your Virgo guy friend is super comfortable opening up about how he feels and what he fears, you, my friend, are the object of a Virgo man’s affection.
This vulnerability may not come in the form of long conversations about his feelings. Something as simple as expressing that he is frustrated at work or worried his plan wouldn’t work is as much vulnerability as you can hope for.
He spoils you
Virgo men are super generous and love to spoil the women they are interested in. Do not be surprised if he shows up to your date with an extravagant gift or surprises you at home with that appliance you have been mentioning.
The best part is that Virgo men usually consider your particular interests and preferences when it comes to spoiling their partners.
This means that you will not just get some random bouquet but your favorite flowers. It won’t just be some basic piece of jewelry but something that bears your birthstone or material that holds sentimental value to you.
He is protective over you
If a Virgo man likes you, their overanalytical mind will most likely conjure up all the different ways you could get hurt, then come up with ways to protect you from the world’s terrors.
What makes this sweet as opposed to creepy is that when a Virgo man is protective, he does it respectfully. It is highly unlikely that you will have to deal with possessiveness and toxic jealousy. He will just want to protect you because he cares for you, not because he thinks he owns you.
He lets you meet his friends and family
Virgo men tend to keep a close circle of friends and family and rarely expose these people to anyone they are not serious about.
So if you find yourself invited out for drinks with his friends or a family trip with his parents, you pretty much have as much confirmation as you will ever need that this guy is truly into you.
He volunteers to help out a lot
Virgo men are generally very practical in every aspect of their lives. This also includes how they show their love. You may notice that he constantly volunteers to help you run errands or fix things around the house.
This is his way of taking care of you and feeling useful in your life, which will mean a lot to him. So let him change that light bulb or check out that weird warning light in your car. It is just as much for him as it is for you.
He remembers the small things and the big ones too
Virgo men also tend to make a big effort to commit things to memory, especially if these things are important to you or help paint a picture of who you are.
We are not talking about things like your birthday or your mom’s maiden name, although don’t be surprised if he remembers that.
I mean, he will remember things like your favorite order at that restaurant that you have probably only been to a couple of times together. He will remember that animal that traumatized you as a kid and that you still avoid as an adult.
And trust me, there is nothing that makes you feel more seen and understood than having someone remember what matters to you.
He takes the initiative – all the time
Virgo dudes are very particular about how they choose to spend their time and effort.
If he is constantly reaching out via calls or texts, that is a very intentional move and means a lot. If he is regularly asking to hang out with you, he probably really likes you.
This initiative is not only in terms of spending time with you but also in helping progress the relationship you share.
He asks a lot of questions
Virgo men are curious with inquisitive minds and love few things more than learning about things, places, and people.
A Virgo man who likes you will most likely ask a lot of questions about you and your life to get to know you better and get you to be more comfortable with him.
It helps to do the same as their walls can run quite high, and each question you ask will just help him get more comfortable with you.
He straight up lets you know
While many Virgo men will rarely rush into professing their feelings, a lot of them eventually verbalize their interest.
If you get to this point, then there is no denying that you truly have your Virgo crush’s attention. That’s because they put a lot of thought into you and your possible future together before ever coming clean about how they feel.
Final Tips on Dating a Virgo Man
There is clearly a lot to look forward to when dating a Virgo man. From their reliable nature to their secret fun side, these guys make for perfect life partners.
The best part is that you now have all the tools to decipher their often-cryptic displays of interest and affection.
To sum it all up, the best way to tell whether or not a Virgo guy is into you is by watching how he treats you. They just want the best for the people they care about and will often go out of their way to show their love with actions more than words. In the meantime you can read our guide to find the right man, or our latest article on how to get a boyfriend.
So, with all this information in mind, do you think you have a real shot with that Virgo dude you’ve been eyeing?
