Today’s world is riddled with choices. From food to dresses, and careers to partners, you are surrounded by so many choices that understanding your needs and wants has become next to impossible. That’s why dating yourself before you decide to hop on to the dating apps to look for the love of your life is important.
In fact, individuality has become such an important part of everyone’s lives that over 51% of adults in England and Wales are single by choice. So if you’re single and looking for some adventurous and creative solo date ideas, here are 6 tried and tested methods that will help you indulge in some self-love in 2024.
Enjoy A Luxurious Staycation
Who says dating has to be hard or uncomfortable? Rest assured, if you’re planning to enjoy a solo adventure, nothing is more comforting than a luxurious staycation. Whether you want to explore the forests as you camp under the stars, or you want to let go of all worries by booking a local bed and breakfast and lounging in all day, you can make the most of your solo date by creatively crafting a day that works for you.
If you want to make it an adventurous trip, you can pick a fun resort with pool service, a hot tub, a fun bar, or rent a Airbnb with pet friendly services to take your little furry friend with you. Remember, the best way to spend your time, whether you’re fresh out of a relationship and feeling lonely and confused, or enjoying the freedom of being alone, is to try things that make you happy and help you understand yourself better.
Head To The Beach
Is there anything better than the mesmerising feeling of sitting on a beach, as the waves crash against the shore, and the sunlight hits your face, giving you a profound feeling of tranquillity and oneness with nature? Just like any other healthy relationship, finding happiness in our day to day life is the key to building stronger commitments.
So utilise your solo time to connect with yourself on a deeper level by enjoying a fulfilling day at the beach. You could build a sand castle, take a long walk, watch the beautiful sunrise or sunset, and even get on a short cruise if you’re trying to amp up the adventure quotient of your solo date.
Explore The City
The best way to get to know you and simultaneously have an adventure is by exploring the places around you. Is there a monument that you always wanted to visit but couldn’t due to lack of company? Why not take yourself?
If you want to take your solo adventure a notch up, try making a trip out of the whole thing. You could get on a bus that takes you around the city, or book a cab for the whole day and travel to places in your city. If you’re an adventurous soul, or are trying to become more adventurous, this can certainly be a starting point for more adventures.
Take Yourself To Dinner
A girl’s gotta eat, whether someone takes her out or she does. In 2024, there is nothing better than enjoying a hot meal in a restaurant of your choice. So get dolled up, wear your favourite outfit, get a reservation to your choice of restaurant, and order something unique, something that you always wanted to try but were unsure of how it would taste.
And, if you’re craving the company of someone with no strings attached, you could even hire a male escort to accompany you. Male escorts for women have been gaining popularity due to the company that they provide. You may enjoy talking to a stranger as your favourite meal makes its way to your table without the added pressure of ‘dating’ that person.
Go For A Relaxing Spa Treatment
We all crave comfort, and nothing speaks of self care like a relaxing spa treatment. A relaxing spa treatment can be a healing journey on its own. There are various types of spas available, ranging from healing, therapeutic, relaxing, to even beauty spas. While this may differ from the traditional definition of a solo adventure, it can be an adventure on its own, where you explore what makes you relax.
If you love your own company, or just want some alone time to decompress, you must visit a spa. You can use this time to connect with yourself, find out what makes you happy, get to know your body better, and rejuvenate yourself, especially if you’ve been working hard and just need a little ‘me time’.
Attend A Workshop
Is there something you’ve wanted to learn for quite some time, but weren’t able to find the time for it? Make it a part of your adventurous solo date instead. You can learn to paint, draw, dance, cook, or garden. If you’re interested in something unique, a fun pottery workshop, or a chess learning session might be the perfect fit for you.
Finding out what type of hobbies you enjoy can help you bring out the essence of your individuality, and can lead to better decision making when it comes to choosing the right partner. Moreover, different types of hobbies keep your cognitive skills sharp, and your body healthy, so why not learn something new, as you discover your preferences?
Wrapping Up
Singlehood is the perfect time to explore your choices and preferences, not only in terms of what you want in a partner, but also what you want from your life. In 2024, singlehood isn’t a bane but a boon in disguise, and you can benefit from it by going on solo adventures and taking yourself out on cute and creative dates.
So, whether your idea of an adventure involves heading to the beach, learning new things, exploring your surroundings, or just taking a fun staycation, keep exploring your interests and enjoy your single life to the fullest.
